I appreciate the kind words, Jimmy. I know we both enjoy the confidence in each other that we’ll always be there for each other, adn we can always pick up where we’ve left off. I agree…I think that’s how true friendships that don’t have the benefit of constant contact turn out. When I think about my relationship with my older brother Jonathan, it makes me so happy that God has given me other Brothers in the very truest sense of the word that transcends blood ties.
Just to let you who do know my brother know a little bit more about what I meant in my last e-mail, here’s the story on Jonathan. As you probably knew he worked for about 2 years at an NPR station in Peoria, Illinois. During that time he decided to give up the broadcasting/journalism industry and turn to another love: theology. But much to the chagrin of many people, he chose to enroll in the Loyola University (Chicago) graduate theology program. For those of you who do not know, Loyola is a Jesuit University.
Now, believe it or not, it doesn’t bother me that Jonathan studies theology at Loyola…he’s got a good mind, and he will get a balanced (if somewhat tainted) education there. It also doesn’t bother me–much–that he has joined the Evangelical Lutheran Church. Of course, I take my doctrinal stand differently than they, but we confess the same Lord. What DOES bother me is his complete lack of anything that remotely resembles kindness, compassion, or patience. Whenever we are together, or whenever we go home, he is constantly and excessively demeaning in what I deem an unacceptable fashion. I am absolutely offended that he would study God’s Word on a daily basis and be so untransformed.
Well…dogs must bark, cats must meow, and I suppose Jonathan Miller must criticize. I don’t know what else to say. I do know this, though: When I have a closer gal and/or get engaged and married, I will no longer tolerate his manner, because I will not allow him to speak hurtfully to her–and, frankly, hurtfully is the way in which he speaks.
Anyway, guys, thanks for allowing me to vent. Please pray for him, me, and our relationship.
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